Phoebe’s personal journey with eczema
After experiencing the worst eczema flare she’s ever had, Phoebe reached out to Eczema Society of Canada to share her story and give a voice to those who are struggling. Phoebe’s eczema journey is a testament to her strength, and her determination to find support for her eczema is inspiring.
“My eczema started when I was very young. It was mainly in my joint areas. I would scratch a lot and sometimes bleed, and my parents would try different moisturizers and take me to the dermatologist, looking for help and answers.
Reflecting on when I was a kid, I had low self-esteem because of my eczema. I struggled to express my feelings, but I felt terrible, and I hated my skin. Fortunately, I had a kind dermatologist. She was always very gentle and non-judgmental. She helped me because she never looked at my skin like something was wrong with me. Her kindness is something I remember.
Even now, when I look at my skin, I struggle with self-esteem. During a bad eczema flare-up, someone asked, “Why does your skin look like that?” Hearing people talk about and comment on my eczema hurts. I’m trying not to be so critical of myself and to extend the same empathy to others that I wish to receive.
I tried so many different lifestyle choices to help improve my eczema. I did so much online reading, and the research was a big wake-up call for me – everyone experiences eczema differently. Our experiences are valid, but it’s frustrating when you try everything to help your symptoms and can’t find a solution.
My advice for anyone struggling with eczema is to be gentle with yourself and your body. I’d want people to know they are strong and not alone. Nothing is wrong with them. They have unique qualities, and their body and skin need extra help.”
ESC sincerely thanks Phoebe for sharing her story. If you or your child is struggling with eczema and need urgent care, go to your nearest emergency department. If you need support, email ESC at info@eczemahelp.ca or connect with us through our social media channels.
March 2025
